>>684507 please don't be mad at the mailperson I doubt they want to deliver the meaningless advertisements
Kirara 🍄
>>684509 I'm mad because they left a pissy letter for me the first time I haven't emptied it. They can fuck off. Who cares if I didn't take every last scrap of paper out of my own damn mailbox?
are you talking about him staying for just a night or something? like if youve got a spot for him and it's just overnight that's one thing if you're talking long term it's a really bad idea
Anno
It sounds like he needs a place for long-term, which, yeah, is what's got me particularly concerned.
home is supposed to be a place to feel safe not sure if you've ever felt unsafe in your home but it's a really distressing feeling
i know you wanna help him but you'd be hurting your whole family in taking away their sense of safety and they'd have to be on guard in their own home and things get awkward
i think you should worry more about them. even if no harm is done, their comfort is still displaced, and that comfort isn't a trivial thing or a luxury, it's an important thing
Anno
Yeah, and those are things I feel would my parents, especially my mother, would consider if I were to ask them. Even if my mother doesn't like someone she's kind of a fundamentally decent person. But even that probably isn't enough to overcome the smart sense of protection.
