>>118390 Which ones? Clarity is key to communication.
Anno
Is it fine to not respect women if you don't disrespect them?
Yuu
Usually just random women. Whenever we see someone walking by the office area in something suspect everyone hates on her. You'd be surprised at the number of women who try to wear things that aren't dresses as dresses. You can't just wear a long blouse and expect that to fly. Other women are going to talk shit about you.
Samurai !KW2DbpWwls
cause if you like the way you meme that much oh baby you should go and love yourself
Anno
>>118397 No, because then youre still not respecting all women
And i don't fuck with nibbas who don't respect women
Kirara☆
A RIVER IN A DRY LAND
Anno
>>118399 Would you take pictures of them and shame them publicly? Without repercussion of course
>>118444 Just think about the circumstance at the moment. What if you were on a board full of women and they were going "respect all men" over and over?
>>118452 I think people are worried It's probably fine even if it's awkward I vent about shit all the time
Anno
>>118447 I would finally feel safe from all the harsh trest Treatment* I receive as a man in the outside world
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
Oh well. Might as well drop this bombshell.
Blind revealed to me through text as she was leaving for her parent's for a week to take care of their dog that she had stopped loving me about 4-5 months ago. So that's a thing. Or rather I should say, we're not really a thing anymore.
Yuu
>>118450 Are you sure it would that? Or would you actually be kind of awkward feeling about it?
oh, she told me this about a week ago. last friday specifically So she basically lied to me about loving me and stuff since January instead of trying to talk to me about how she had no real interest in my interests and that she felt I didn't show enough interest in her interests. And a little while after she also told me that while she tried to make things work apparently on her own, (again not talking to me at all), she felt that it wasn't really worth the time and effort. Which is reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally a mean thing to say even if she's not trying to be malicious
>>118464 We'll have to probably work that out soon, since she comes back tomorrow. The lease ends and isn't being renewed so I'll have to find somewhere to live, probably back home which means I can't really keep the job I have. Unless I live around here and paying rent by myself would be really hard.
>>118473 Thanks for the offer, but I've basically been talking to Kirara for the past week about it. I'm kind of okay I think? I sure wasn't a week ago.
Anno
>>1184619 >>118461 she probably didnt try that hard trying hard includes talking to your partner
Yuu
>>118466 Uh, everyoen has five senses. sight, taste, touch, hearing, smell And the sixth sense is feminine intuition.
月
>>118456 i'm sorry things turned out that way bud i know i'm probably not one to turn to but i'm available if you need to talk or anything
Anno
>>118472 Incredible If only some day we could reach such high levels of existence as men
Yuu
>>118470 So you need a roommate to make the current situation keep happening? How long have you guys been together?
If having a women's intuition also makes you shittalk people behind their back then no thanks.
Yuu
>>118477 hmm I think you guys should try having a face to face talk about this befoer you make it official. And maybe some rough make-up sex.
月
>>118477 not to make it about me but i was with my ex for six and things ended very suddenly and uncomfortably i know some of those awful feelings will you likely be spending less time with us here? some people draw away when things get difficult i hope you won't. i like having you here.
Anno
That's really rough
Anno
>>118479 Woah hold on there motherfucker you're not being very respectful
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
>>118480 She has basically said that there is no way. She literally does not love me anymore. Said so herself.
well yeah but like how is that going to change in person
Anno
Yeah It's not like she's gonna see your face and change her mind
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
like I totally get the idea of having this important conversation in person But she's felt this way for months and didn't talk to me about it for some reason
Yuu
>>118488 hmm I'm going to deviate from the rule of this thread about respecting women, but many women are cowards. So you need to get it from her face. You owe it to the relationship to at least find out why, don't you?
Anno
Just let it go and move on. I mean, shit ain't worth it.
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
>>118491 I guess I could get her to say that I'm not worth her time and effort to my face .
>>118493 it sounds terrible but thats something you deserve at least text is so impersonal its bullshit
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
Like I wanted to wait until she got back and try to work things out and get back together and stuff But then I started texting her some more and like damn >>118498 I did about a week ago but after all the stuff she's said I don't really know anymore.
Yuu
>>118493 I guess I should have asked this first - do you want to save the relationship?
Like I was distraught and wanting to fix things a week ago, but after this past week it's just likie jeez >>118500 all text.
Yuu
Did you talk on the phone at all about it, or was it all over text?
Anno
>>118498 Just continue this relationship with someone who has stopped loving you
Ploof
Honestly even if you don't want to continue the relationship, I think you owe yourself a face to face meeting where she tells you she doesn't love you anymore. I don't like the idea of "owing it to the relationship." Do it for yourself.
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
Since you've mentioned it rika, I'll ask her in person too. Just for certainty. Uh, just in case, this isn't like sarcasm or anything. >>118507 this is a good kitakami
>>118502 I agree Letting sone thing like this end over text is such a drab thing
Anno
kitakamasama
Yuu
>>118503 Well, don't have the conversation if you don't want to. I would be rather forceful about making the conversation happen in your situation, though.
In the past whenever my friends have done things like that I have forced them to talk to me about it. One thing you need to understand about women is that they are stupid and sometimes there's a problem that can be fixed.
rook
>>118503 It's not sarcasm, having a face to face conversation will provide some more closure for you
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
>>118509 No, I meant my statement. I was making sure I didn't come off as sarcastic. >>118508 I can definitely see that. However, I did receive an email saying that our apartment has been leased to someone else and that apparently Blind emailed our landlord a month ago saying she didn't want to renew the lease without telling me even though I repeatedly asked about the lease, so.
rook
Ah, ok
Another Anonymous月
>>118510 That's kind of messed up. Are you sure you want to have the conversation face to face? i'm not sure that would leave anyone in good shape
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
Saying "I love you" in text to someone and then revealing later that day that the last 5 months of relationship have been a lie is also pretty fucked up.
regardess of what happens, I do kind of need two things to happen. 1, Blind needs to stick around and help with bills and stuff 2, I want the car.
Yuu
Wow I am really breaking the meme tonight
Another thing you need to understand about women is that women can twist logic to justify almost any messed up behavior.
Anno
It's okay I'm #thotpatrol now
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
I understand that Blind might actually just be being retarded, but at the same time I have lived with this person for quite some time. She's a blunt and spontaneous person. It's entirely possible that she's absolutely serious.
ONe of the problems she has with me is that I spend time on the computer and am perfectly content with this, whereas she wants to travel. And like, I really wish she had talked with me about this instead of trying to work on trying to like my things one-sided.
>>118521 Let's respect women, okay? Although I take pride in my ability to twist logic to justify almost anything.
>>118520 You can still try to talk things out with her. There's no harm in trying. Unless you don't want to, this is something that's totally your call.
>>118523 Is that really something tobe proud of? Actually...
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
>>118523 Like, there's a part of me that wanted to work things out. But then the comment from >>118493 happened and my mood changed dramatically. Like how do you just say that about someone you've spent this long with. How do you just go "trying to make our relationship work by trying to be interested in you and the things you like wasn't worth my time."
Ploof
this sounds like I shoudl /// should totally avoid women! Wow! Now I'll never have rabbit babies
She acknowledged that she thought it sounded "kind of mean".
Yuu
>>118534 >>118535 Well, if it were me I would want to have the face to face conversation to try to ferret out if she was lying or not. Sometimes people lie about these things. But I am extremely forceful about friendships and relationships to the point of borderline yandere.
月Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
Blind's a pretty blunt girl. But we are totally going to talking a lot so there's little reason I can't make sure of things.
Like Blind and I are having regular text conversation still a bit.
I'm probably not going to do what I said I was going to do with my paid vacation time now though. I was going to try and spend time with her if we patched up the relationship but I don't see that happening. Maybe I'll run back home for a small teeny bit so I can try to figure out my living situation.
Ploof
All joking aside I can't believe all women are just total pieces of shits.
Yuu
>>118532 You can have a serious conversation with me right now.
>>118539 She's a girl and sometimes girls are completely retarded about feelings. What did she say, other than that she wasn't in love anymore?
Another Anonymous
>>118541 I'm in nocondition to have even a half serious conversation right now Just saying But you are both like... Competitor and mentor.
"I don't feel the same anymore" "I feel like you'd be happier back home with your friends too" (which I refuted), that I'm not the right person with whom to do the things she wants to do, that I don't seem happy or excited enough when I do things she wants me to do (which I also refuted), the part about how she's felt like this since january, that she wants someone who would be excited to go do the things etc, how my attitude makes it seem like everything is a hassle for me, that she's come to like different things from what she used to (like video games and stuff), that she thinks so about falling "completely" out of love with me, that she tried to make an effort and that it's not working, that she tried to change things little by little and that she finally decided it wasn't worth the effort, and that's about everything.
>>118545 No, no, you are both. We're just in leagues of our own in each right.
Samurai !KW2DbpWwls
I heard reports of misogyny in this thread. Stop right there, criminal scum
Anno
>>118540 May you never forget the constant wasting of air that is the breathing of the complete wastes of space that we call women
Ploof
>>118549 No I mean that more literally. I actually can't believe it. It's just not possible in my world view that even a decent percentage of women are total fuckers.
I'm hesitant to travel but I would have bitten the bullet since it'd be for Blind But guess that's not necessary now.
Yuu
>>118563 hmm Well despite being onee-san I don't have any really good advice for you. These things are difficult. I hope it works out in a way that you can be okay with.
Maria
>>118562 Well I'm still posting. Come on boy, hit me with your best shot!
>>118566 That's fine, and thank for you trying. I wasn't really expecting advice.
As long as she doesn't screw me over in terms of financial situation or any more of my living situation, I'll probably be fine. She's already ruined my emotionally after all wwwwwwwwwwww
Maria
>>118569 TELL MY WIFE AND KIDS THAT MARIA DIED A HERO. SIEG ZEOOOON
Jokes about my emotional state aside, I seriously want the car and for her to continue paying what she's been paying until the lease is up.
also >>118574 IT'S CALLED A POUND SIGN YOU NITWIT >>118577 unfortunately both of those would be her However I've paid the bills and rent for pretty much the entirety of our time here, which is two years. Considering bills being split like that, to say "I haven't paid for the car at all" would be unfair.
Yuu
>>118573 #they already told you and you didn't listen because you thought you were being tricked!
oops
it's like this
>>118576 Who's name is the car in? Who has paid for it? And you said you've been together about 4 years?
And I also gave money on the down payment so there's that.
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
I mean, there's a shitty backup car at my aunt's but I like this thing.
Yuu
>>118576 You might have to negotiate a bit for the car then because it sounds like it's a tough situation for you legally on that front.
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
There's also the part where Blind is BLIND and cannot drive so what the heck is she going to do with it.
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
"Please allow me to have the car as compensation for anally ravaging my emotions!" >>118585 I think if she took specialized courses she could, but she shouldn't because her vision is pretty awful. Literally no peripheral vision.
Yuu
Oh that's true. Can you even get a car in your name when you'e blind? That's weird. She can't get a driver's license can she?
Anno
>>118583 Hold it in her name because of pettiness and the resell value.
月
>>118570 how much is the rent and stuff? just a random shot in the dark but my lease is up in june and i gotta go somewhere else options are still open
Anno
>>118570 Listen here Ton, this is Tilde. I know I can be a right arse to you but I hope you understand that shit's more my thing and not any issue with you. But I want to let you know that I'm keeping you in mind with all this. It's been bothering me since your personality took a swerve earlier in the week, probably about the time it happened. Thank you for actually talking about it and letting us know your situation. I can't even fathom offering any decent advice or advice in general, but I'm as much of a shoulder as I can offer. Try and breathe easy, man.
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
>>118587 575 a month. it's pretty good, but I would have trouble paying for that AND the car on my own. And I need the car for my job, really. Like I get maybe 600 a paycheck and I get two of those a month. I would be struggling.
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
>>118588 Remember how I was a little weird last Cthulu session? Yeah.
Thanks Tilde.
月
>>118589 you said you had a home option? going back home
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
>>118591 yeah I can go home Where I have probably a couple options really
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
Hmm, I don't think the brevity of that post does yours any justice, so I'll fix it.
Thank you very much Tilde, it means a lot to me to hear you say this. And like I said I'm not really expecting much on the advice front, for a couple reasons. It's certainly unpleasant, or was during the last one // week at least, when I was just sitting at work alone with my thoughts. I'm feeling pretty okay right now though.
Anno
>>118590 Sorry man I'll be totes honest here your weirdness in the Cthulhu sessions all blends together and last week was not really weirder than it usually is, hah hah.
Anno
Speaking of being financially cucked I still haven't recieved my paycheck that I was supposed to get yesterday Might have to take this into my own hands
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
>>118594 Ah. Well no worries haha Rika pointed it out and you're usually turbo perceptive so I just assumed.
月
i've never seen tilde perceive anything i dunno what you're talking about
Talesof !NuKeSlvmWE
I guess this week has been good for getting used to being alone again.
If I go back home I'll have PAN to deal with the loneliness I suppose. Rika please hold your doujinshis until next comiket.
Anno
>>118593 Actually I'm doing a full 180 nevermind. Take your time getting shit together but don't go full bitches and whores and try to keep company
>>118599 Can I be honest about something? I know it's a very unpleasant thing but you're noticeably more you you seem like oyu // you have more breathing room
Yuu
>>118601 Why are you flooping at me? I'm not talking about myself, of course.
>>118666 I think of every actaction of some people as well planned actions with a specific goal in mind. However, it's worth noting... I don't trust people.
Ploof
Are all these anons tanos saying hi to me? you can say it there idiots.
Anno
what's wrong with saying hi here
Rin
Hoi Puff
Ploof
>>118669 You're fine. Special exception. >>118670 And here's the biggest idiot of em all!
>>118726 What are you confused about perhaps I can help you?
Kirara☆
>>118731 Wow >>118729 What if I edit it to say protect rika-donos
月
>>118732 i'm pretty sure everyone knows this song and whole album
rook
>>118732 >Now you know I'm not that kind of poster I don't know what you mean by this please clarify Also good song but I like another song off that album but I'm blanking on the name now
Anno
>>118730 >>118731 it's the mark of shiposters so that everyone knows to not respond
>>118817 I dunno, you can grab her boobs or something.
rook
but you've ATTEMPTED to trick me just because you failed doesn't mean you are not a trickster
Ploof
>>118819 That's some twisted logic. Just because you never murdered someone doesn't make you not - Wait I worded that wrong. Just because you didn't murder that person in particular, but did another, doesn't mean you aren't one. >>118825 You admitted it yourself.
Kirara☆
sneaky sneakers
Kirara☆
>>118819 Yeah, but you can do that with any girl in the dark that isn't speaking.
rook
snakey snickers
Yuu
>>118821 I think the twisted logic is the people trying to say I'm tricky when I've never tricked any of you!
>>118823 Her body is probably similar to her sisters and the Kongou family all has pretty good genes. So maybe it's not that bad, especially for a drunk person!
rook
I've seen you trick both sugoi AND kirara you're definitely tricky
Anno
>>118819 you know who didn't trick me but i'm still mad at them
rook
is it me?
AnnoKirara☆ -RIKA DEFENSE FORCE-
rika would never trick anyone
Yuu
>>118826 I don't think tricking Sugoi counts. Sugoi wants to be tricked and falls for it on purpose every time. I'm really just doing what he wants in the end, you know?
When did I trick Kirara?
>>118826 What does that have to do with me being tricky?
>>118831 i got him really good once and he doesn't fall for any of my tricks any more or want them i think he learned his lesson in that regard with me anyway
Yuu
>>118835 Maybe Jan just wants to grab some boobs. You have to admit that if you were looking for some easy boob grabbing, Hiei would be a good target.
Anno
>>118808 every single bitch in the whole game is less cute than this one though even though I forgot her name until Imats helped me
>>118885 This carton goes bad in two days I have to do something about it. I've been using less milk because I used to have cereal for a midnight smack but since my promotion I've been having sleep as a midnight snack.
Samurai !KW2DbpWwls
prepare for trouble
Anno
>>118895 That was a crazy amount of momentum though, it's a bit hard to keep up that pace.
月
>>118895 oh you got a promotion? sasuga congratulates
Yuu
>>118899 This happened awhile ago but thank you. It basically means more work more money. I'm sure you've noticed I've been working harder recently.
>>118898 It's fun to keep up that momentum though.
月
>>118901 i thought you meant it happened since you bought that carton of milk it seems you just haven't adjusted your milk purchasing in accordance yet
i feel like i found something in myself today and yesterday that i had been missing for a long time i feel really good about it it's so comfy that i want to just sleep but i want to enjoy being awake and alive too
Anno
I forgot my friend got me a copy of vol 1 of genshiken might as well give it a read since you mentioned it
rook
it's a really nice feeling
rook
>>118913 actually this is probably the best feeling